My mom has been over helping us out with some things!!! I am feeling more and more ready every day for this baby to be here, and I don't just mean my body is ready to be done. Lol. I mean as far as my nesting goes! I didn't get to do much nesting last time so it feels good to finish projects I'd been wanting done since last year. Not things that are vital to baby's arrival, but feel good to be taken care of, nonetheless. My list is almost completely taken care of!
We had our sizing ultrasound on Friday! Mister Malcolm is a big dude!!! He's already measuring at over 5 pounds!!! So if we do end up going to term, we will have an 8-9 pounder! We have a follow-up appointment with Dr Miser on Tuesday so we'll see how she feels about the size. I won't lie, there is part of me that is hoping she'll want to bump up the c section a week since he's measuring a week ahead. I know it's better for baby to cook longer...I'm just saying, I wouldn't be sad if I had only 5 weeks left instead of 6. Lol
And here's one more good story for the books. And it's a GOOD one. While mom and I were out shopping with Mason, a lady came to our door and told Garrett I was having an affair with her husband and that I was carrying his baby. Yep. I shit you not. G said she was convinced of it and was very upset. G, of course, tried to tell her that there was NO way that was possible seeing as I've A) basically been pregnant and on bed rest for 2 years and B) I've basically been with G 24/7 for months because up until recently, I've been too sick to even take care of our son by myself, let alone have any affairs.
Anyway, so she told G she was coming back with pictures. And he was like, yes. Please do, as he knows whoever is in these pictures was not me. By the time she came back, mom and I were back home. And I'm super glad we were because I was able to talk to her. To her credit, she was very civil under the circumstances. She introduced herself and asked if I knew a certain tattoo artist in town. I said I knew of him but never met him. She said I knew her husband through this tattoo artist. I have never even heard her husband's name or hers until yesterday.
She told me she GPS tracked her husband driving up and down our street a bunch of times, apparently. She said she knew my name was "Vanessa" although she had the lady name wrong. She said she knew we had a couple of "beaitiful" dogs. And she said she saw a bunch of text messages coming from my phone. At that point, I had to ask her what number were these texts coming from. She said that her hubby unfortunately deleted the number. I offered for her to look through my phone, which she turned down. So I offered up my phone number in case they pop up again. I have nothing to hide. At this point, she had already been having a change of heart. You could tell. She never offered up the pictures because it was probably obvious I was not the woman in the pictures.
She also saw our little Mister Mason and how visibly VERY pregnant I am and probably thought to herself that there is NO WAY I would have had time to fit in an affair between these kiddos and all that bed rest. My mom chimed in at this point and said "ya know, her dogs really aren't that beautiful." I kinda laughed and said, no I suppose they wouldn't be considered that beautiful to the average person. The lady said "they're malamutes, right?" I told her no and let my dogs in so she could see her. I think that was the final proof she needed to be convinced she had the wrong Vanessa. She said she felt really embarrassed and apologized up and down about everything. She lives around the corner from us apparently and when she GPSed her husband driving up and down our road, then saw my license plates on my old intrepid that say Nessa, she made the assumption that it was me having the affair.
By the time she left, she wanted to commission me to paint her a Boba Fett. Lol. So it was definitely an interesting turn of events and not how I expected that whole exchange to go. Lol. I actually feel kind of bad for her. Just because her hubby isn't cheating with me, doesn't mean he's not cheating with someone. So, again, to her credit, she was very civil considering she was convinced I was sleeping with her husband. And she was able to rationalize that it didn't make sense. I think lots of women wouldn't be able to make any sound judgements in that situation...despite proof saying otherwise.
Most of my close friends know that I currently do not even like men at the moment. Hahah! Or anyone, for that fact...unless you are already my friend. So the thought of an affair sounds like some form of torture. Lol.
I'm glad me and G are so stable in our relationship. And that we have NEVER had trust issues. That whole scenario could have shaken an unstable relationship but it has left ours unscathed. G never thought even for a minute that there was any truth to her story. That, in and of itself, makes me sooooo incredibly thankful for the sturdiness of our relationship and the amount of trust we have. It would have been the same if the tables were flipped and some dude was knocking on our door accusing G of having an affair. Aside from hard proof, you couldn't pay me enough to believe it.
So, yes. Interesting to say the least!! I'm glad it all ended well (for us anyway) because that could have been a seriously ugly situation...
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